10 Tips to Handle Casual Sex Relationship
What is sex for you? A passion, a feeling or something else? It is a general notion that for women, sex is an expression of love, but for men, love means sex. You can never deny your feelings, especially when you get involved with someone physically. So, what is it according to you? Is there any connection between love & sex? Have you ever thought of sex without feelings? Can you enjoy those passionate moments without love?
Yes, it can happen. You can see such a pseudo relation easily in those cases where space for commitments doesn’t exist. For many, sleeping with someone is not a big deal. But the important thing to keep in mind in such types of pseudo-relationships is to protect yourself. Here are some tips for those who want to keep a relationship merely for sexual pleasures:
Don’t be involved emotionally
It’s perfectly fine to be loving & caring, but only with a borderline. Be clear in the beginning that there is no scope for us in the future.
No sharing with friends
Don’t forget that if today you love to gossip about others’ relationships, then soon you will be the topic of their gossips.
Don’t get involved with each other’s family
If you are well prepared about not having any future of your relationship, then there is no meaning to get too much involved and put each other in an awkward situation like being introduced in a family function or get-togethers.
Avoid Sharing Secrets
Always remember, sharing more and more things will only create complications. You can’t expect the same reaction as you are feeling for a particular thing from the other person who takes you casually.
No more gifts & return gifts
There is no meaning to spend thousands of bucks to buy gifts or return gifts to please each other, especially when you are not going to run that relationship longer.
No Pressure to say ‘Yes’ Always
You are running a relationship where you are completely free to say no, when you don’t feel like it. There is no need to give explanations or to make any kind of excuse.
Respect each other’s decision
Don’t forget that you are in this casual sex relationship with mutual understanding. So, don’t ever feel offended when the opposite person says no.
Just finish and leave
Don’t exhibit your feelings. Simply enjoy those moments and leave. Don’t try to extend your meeting or staying back.
Quit immediately, if you find something inappropriate
You are not in a committed relationship, so there is no meaning to accept pressure, stupidity, nonsense or any kind of abusive thing.
Be well prepared for the future
You stepped into this relationship after understanding the pros & cons well. So, there is no meaning to end up that relationship with the feelings. If you do, then you are putting yourself in a trouble.
Handle your casual sex relationship with lesser expectations.
No Demands, No Complaints, No Strings Attached.